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Sammaan ya Apmaan

| May 14, 2015 | 8 Comments

Kehne ko tho saari duniya mein aurath ka samman hotha hai
Aaj samaaj mein aurath ka utna hi apman ho raha hai
Agar paida honey se pehle beti honey ka pata chal gaya
Subse pehle Maa-Baap ne usko garbh se phenk diya
Ladkon ne zabardasti jab apni chahat ko manwana chaha
Aur agar inkar kiya tho ladki par tezaab phenk diya

Shaadi ke din dahej ki rakam na milne par
Sasural ne ladki ko mandap se phenk diya
Shaadi ke baad agar beta na hua tho
Sasural ne bahu ko ghar se bahar phenk diya
Kisi sharabi ko sharab ke liye paise na miley tho
sharabi ne apni patni ko ghar se bahar phenk diya

Ab tho har roz aurath ka apmaan honey laga hai
Kabhi usko kisi bus ya car se phenka jaata hai
Jis desh ki sabhyata, kanoon aur insaaf par usko garv hai
Usi kanoon aur raajneethi ne uska tamaasha bana rakha hai
Jis dharti par ek beti, behen, biwi aur maa ka samman hota tha
Aaj usi dharti par ek aurath ka har roz apman hota hai

Sanskaar aur dhaarmikta jahan khatam ho gaye hain
Unko kya pata hoga kisko kehte hain
Samman ya Apmaan


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I’m Fayaz Pasha from Bangalore, the Silicon Valley and Garden City of India. I’m a Certified Life Coach and an NLP Practitioner. I love reading, writing and convey my thoughts through Poetry. I would like to make my humble contribution to the Society through this blog towards detoxification of social evils particularly the dowry system.

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  1. You’ve captured the pain so tenderly. Really touching, Sir…. :-(
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  2. Saru Singhal says:

    Bilkul sahi kaha aapne. So much is happening and there is so much hypocrisy that the purpose is defeated. A hard hitting post.

    • Fayaz Pasha says:

      Kahin insaan haiwaan hogaya hai aur kahin insaaf laachar aur aurath par ho rahey hain har roz atyachar. The society degenerates when morality is compromised and we are seeing the result.

      Thank you Saru for your kind comment.

  3. Nice one Fayaz. This clearly captures the pain and that a woman goes through all along her life right from birth to the day or marriage and later. THe society must move from a male centric version to an open version for some changes to happen.
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    • Fayaz Pasha says:

      It is unfortunate the from the fetus stage and all along the journey of life, she’s put to misery but boasts of giving woman the highest regard.

      Thank you Vinay.

  4. Very well written Sir.Truly heart warming!
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