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Paraya Dhan

| May 26, 2014 | 8 Comments

Buzurgon Ne,

Buzurgon Ne farmaya ki Susral ke rupyon pe khadey hokay dikhlao

Phir ye zamaana tumhara hai

Susraaal se maal, zewar, rupya aur jahez le aao

Phir har din tumhara suhana lagey hai

Arey to lo bhaiya hum

Susral se maangney ke khabil ho gaye

Aur chaladi hai baath shadi ke liye

Jo jahez ab milega, O Miyan, Miyan

Ye jahan dekhkar hojayega hairaan


Wah Wah Wah Wah – Dhanvad!


Ki Jab Roobaroooooooooooo,

Ki jab roobaroo baat meri ho jayegi

Ki jab roobaroo baat meri ho jayegi

Thab hum jahez ki maang rakhenge

Ki jab roobaroo

Wo ladka bhala kis kaam ka hai

Jo shaadi mein jahez, jahez, jahez na le

Ki jab roobaroo


Hum daftar se kuch aur

Bahar se kuch aur kamaatey hain

Bakhuda Susral ko bahut acche Nazar aatey hain

Umr guzri hai saari padaayi mein

Saarey khwab ab hain band jahez ki malaayi mein


Maa Baap ka ye shuroo se hai sapna

Shaan shaukat rakhna aur Susral se maal lootna

Shaan shaukat rakhna aur susral se maal lootna


Jatan karo apne maal ko, par Sural ka dhan zaaya karo

Karz ki museebath mein na pado

Paraya dhan, dahej par nazar daalo

Acchi aadat hai ye, Is aadat ko badal na do


Ye aadat to bahut kaam ki hai

Ek din Susral bhi ATM lagey, lagey, lagey, rey!

Ki Jab Roobaroo

Ki jab roobaroo baat meri ho jayegi

Thab hum jahez ki maang rakhenge……

Kya tumhara khayal paraya dhan par hai?

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I’m Fayaz Pasha from Bangalore, the Silicon Valley and Garden City of India. I’m a Certified Life Coach and an NLP Practitioner. I love reading, writing and convey my thoughts through Poetry. I would like to make my humble contribution to the Society through this blog towards detoxification of social evils particularly the dowry system.

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  1. Pradip Kumar Biswas says:

    Dahez in most of the parts of really educated societies of Bengal and North East is a matter of shame. Even if some people take it it is not much and in indirect or hush hush ways. This system is not only evil but source of many types of corruptions. When people are caught in taking bribe most of them say that their target is to arrange money for dowry toget their daughters or sisters married.

    • Fayaz Pasha says:

      Thank you Pradip for dropping by and for your kind comments. Irrespective of whether people are educated or illiterate, take less dowry or demand more, demand or give voluntarily, all of them who indulge in this custom are partners to crime that has left many a families in despair. Corruption is a byproduct of dowry system wherein people do everything they can so that they are able to arrange huge dowries for their daughters or sisters. So, this evil practice which is the mother of all evils needs to be addressed by one and all.

      Thanks again for your comments and look forward to seeing you here more often.

  2. sindhoooo says:

    Nice poem Fayaz ji. I hope your posts to reach all the Indians…

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    • Fayaz Pasha says:

      Thanks Sindhoo and yes, it would be great if a majority of them are able to read the posts and become aware of some of the social evils that need to be addressed on a war footing.

  3. rajni sinha says:

    nice parody and so true of most Indian weddings

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