• Dowry returned by 800 families

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  • Conscious Living

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  • An Accident

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  • Celebrating 4th Anniversary

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    Dear Readers, Hello and Assalamualaikum! The blog today successfully marks the 4th Anniversary of a beautiful journey with your support and kind appreciation. Muslim Wedding Flight did face some turbulence issues during the year. However, it has been able to cruise safely to distant destinations across the globe with the constant support and encouragement from […]

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  • 8 Reasons to NOT Send Your Daughter to College-Final Part

    8 Reasons to NOT Send Your Daughter to College-Final Part

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  • 8 Reasons to NOT Send Your Daughter to College- Part1

    8 Reasons to NOT Send Your Daughter to College- Part1

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  • Paying Guest and Marital Accommodation

    Paying Guest and Marital Accommodation

    Dear Readers, While watching a video about the recent suicide of a six month pregnant woman who was also a mother of two children, it pained me a lot.  She committed suicide as she was being tortured for more dowries.  On the other hand, I was startled when I read about the facilities provided in […]

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  • What Will You Do In This Situation?

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  • Knowing the Purposes of a Marriage

    Knowing the Purposes of a Marriage

    Parents and those seeking a spouse are mostly worried about the wedding day and how they would be able to meet the expenses and make necessary arrangements for a smooth wedding.  However, a majority of them discard the idea of checking the veracity of the spouse’s background, getting a premarital medical checkup done or having […]

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  • Kuch Rang SaaS Ke Aise Bhi – Part-2

    Kuch Rang SaaS Ke Aise Bhi – Part-2

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  • Why Marry?

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  • Marriage Planning

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  • ABOUT ME

    ABOUT ME

    Hello and As Salamualaykum! Welcome aboard Muslim Wedding Flight and thank you very much for visiting my blog. I’m sure you must be bemused after reading this unusual blog title. Well, I got this idea while I was thinking about the various steps involved for a journey by flight. I wondered if people had to make meticulous […]

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Inquire and Investigate

| November 10, 2015 | 4 Comments

When we intend to buy a car, a smart phone, a laptop or a television we inquire and investigate and do enormous research on the internet, seek advice from friends and relatives and then decide to purchase. Suppose the purchased product is defective or malfunctions, we have an option to exchange or get a refund. However, when it comes to marriage proposals, we do not think it necessary to inquire or investigate.

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Many a marriage proposals are finalized based on one or two aspects about the prospective bride or bridegroom by ignoring some vital information that may cause disharmony in the relationship.  It is therefore necessary that parents and those seeking a spouse should thoroughly inquire and investigate all possible aspects before finalizing the proposal.

A majority of parents who are on the lookout for a prospective spouse for their children feel satisfied if their basic expectations are met.  However, there are also parents who are not aware of some personal or health problems of their children.

If any major aspect related to personal or health of the individual is not disclosed before marriage it becomes a barrier or a reason for divorce.  Sometimes, it also takes an ugly turn resulting in the death of one of the partners.

In the above video it is observed that non-disclosure of certain facts can sometimes be fatal.  An innocent life was lost as a result of withholding important information.

What do you think are the major aspects in the above video that were not disclosed resulting in a divorce and death of an innocent girl?  

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What do you think are some major aspects that parents should refrain from hiding before finalizing a proposal?

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I’m Fayaz Pasha from Bangalore, the Silicon Valley and Garden City of India. I’m a Certified Life Coach and an NLP Practitioner. I love reading, writing and convey my thoughts through Poetry. I would like to make my humble contribution to the Society through this blog towards detoxification of social evils particularly the dowry system.

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  1. Quite a thought-provoking post. I have seen this episode of Crime Petrol earlier too. But after reading your blog post, I was bound to watch it again. Being a mother of two grown-up girls, this issue pinches me a lot.

    It’s quite difficult for a parent of a marriageable-aged daughter like me to trust people when it comes to proposals. The way you have framed this article around the subject is quite beneficial for us and teaches us not to ignore any doubts that come in between.

    So, it’s better to inquire & investigate as much as we can. After all, it’s the future of our kids!

    • Fayaz Pasha says:

      Thank you so much Ms. Sangeeta for dropping by and for your kind comment. Very true! its a matter of concern. A majority of parents are more worried about the wedding day and plan accordingly. These days we even have wedding planners to make it easy. However, what is more important is to plan, prepare, educate and become aware of all aspects related to the marital journey.

      A co-passenger’s bad habits or bad behavior on a bus or train journey becomes intolerable. Marriage is a life-long journey of two individuals who should be compatible in many aspects. Finalizing the match based on one or two aspects makes them vulnerable on the marital journey. Parents should thoroughly inquire and investigate and the rest is in the hands of the Creator.

      Another important aspect which most parents ignore is to have a pre-marital contract which will secure the rights of the partners particularly when disagreements arise in future. You can refer to my posts on the following links:
      http://muslimweddingflight.com/security-check-premarital-agreement,
      http://muslimweddingflight.com/sample-terms-conditions-premarital-agreement.

      Thank you once again.

      • Thank you so much Mr. Pasha for this detailed & informative reply. Your advice is indeed useful for a parent like me. I do believe in a pre-marital contract thing, but have seen people being cheated and be-fooled. Still, it’s better to be cautious.

        Your’s posts are indeed meaningful for all the parents who are concerned, aware and conscious for their children’s future and for them too, who are not, but need to be. Thanks for sharing your valuable thoughts.
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        • Fayaz Pasha says:

          As you have said it is better to be cautious, When we buy property, we seek legal advice from a lawyer to ensure that our investment is safe. Even if our investment goes wrong, we will only suffer a financial loss. We certainly need to take all precautions when it comes to our children’s future.

          It saddens to note that soon after marriage those loving daughters are subjected to humiliation, torture and are sometimes killed for the sake of dowry.

          Thank you once again Ms. Sangeeta.

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