• Knowing the Purposes of a Marriage

    Knowing the Purposes of a Marriage

    Parents and those seeking a spouse are mostly worried about the wedding day and how they would be able to meet the expenses and make necessary arrangements for a smooth wedding.  However, a majority of them discard the idea of checking the veracity of the spouse’s background, getting a premarital medical checkup done or having […]

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  • Kuch Rang SaaS Ke Aise Bhi – Part-2

    Kuch Rang SaaS Ke Aise Bhi – Part-2

    MIL (Mother-In-Law): Dear Daughter-In-Law (DIL), While I was seeking a bride for my son, I had made it clear that we are against the evil practice of dowry system. However, almost all proposals that we came across were loaded with dowries because my son is settled abroad. In some proposals, parents were even willing to […]

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  • Kuch Rang Saas Ke Aise Bhi – Part-1

    Kuch Rang Saas Ke Aise Bhi – Part-1

    SAAS (Mother-in-Law): Dear Daughter-in-Law, Now that you are engaged and will soon be joining our household, I would like to clarify some points as mentioned below: “After marriage, you will be permitted to visit your parents once a month. You’ll be allowed to visit or talk to your friends and relatives on all festive occasions. […]

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  • Wishing you a very happy Ramadan

    Wishing you a very happy Ramadan

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  • Life Imprisonment Verdict

    Life Imprisonment Verdict

    A life imprisonment verdict is generally given out for very serious crimes and in nations with no death penalty it is the ultimate punishment.  Imprisonment for life is always with rigorous imprisonment and is given till the end of life of the convict.  Many a weddings especially in the Asian Subcontinent are similar to a […]

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  • The Power of Now

    If you spare a few minutes to watch the above video, you will be able to understand “the power of now concept” A beggar had been sitting by the side of a road for over thirty years. One day a stranger walked by. “Spare some change?” mumbled the beggar, mechanically holding out his old baseball […]

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  • Qualified or A Capable Spouse

    Qualified or A Capable Spouse

    Parents spend sleepless nights and wish to see their children (daughters in particular) to be married. Their search however is more directed towards finding an equally qualified than a capable spouse. Apart from some of the above reasons, parents truly wish to see their daughters’ marital happiness.   However, some parent’s insist upon finding an […]

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  • Purchasing a Flat

    Purchasing a Flat

    Mr. X wanted to purchase a house.   A real estate agent  showed him a beautiful picture and Mr. X fell flat upon seeing it and made immediate payment. Mr. Y wanted to purchase a flat and the real estate agent provided him a brochure (as detailed below) and Mr. Y was very pleased with the […]

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  • Marriage Recipe

    Marriage Recipe

    Dear Readers, It’s been long time that I wanted to share some of the best marriage quotes and the collection of quotes begin with a marriage recipe.                                          Are you ready for these?       […]

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  • A Successful Partnership

    Those seeking a spouse especially parents should watch the above video We all crave harmonious relationships, which seem to be a rare commodity these days. As you are aware, there are many situations where partnerships are involved especially in business, sports, games etc. These partnerships are based upon achieving certain objectives for a particular duration. […]

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  • Why Marry?

    Unfortunately, these are some of the (unmentioned) reasons that some parents conceal when deciding to marry their children: • Our son is frivolous and we hope that he will learn his responsibilities once he gets married. • The mother is old and sick and we need a woman (daughter in-law) who will look after the […]

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  • Marriage Planning

    Marriage Planning

    “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail’ Benjamin Franklin         Planning can be defined as a mental process to achieve some predetermined goals based on facts rather than guesses.  Some of the areas that require planning are : Life Goals, Personality, Academic/Religious Qualifications, Essential Skills, Hobbies and Interests,  Well-Being and Social Interests.  A […]

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    Hello and As Salamualaykum! Welcome aboard Muslim Wedding Flight and thank you very much for visiting my blog. I’m sure you must be bemused after reading this unusual blog title. Well, I got this idea while I was thinking about the various steps involved for a journey by flight. I wondered if people had to make meticulous […]

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Do You Have A Dream?

| March 20, 2014 | 8 Comments

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

~Eleanor Roosevelt

The happiest and most successful people are involved in doing something that they enjoy doing or are living a life of purpose and passion. One of the ingredients of happiness is doing what you enjoy most but unfortunately many of them do not know what their passion is.

A dream is a blueprint of a person’s purpose of life and potential, an inspiring picture of the future that energizes and empowers the mind to do everything possible in order to achieve it.

Most people have a dream. Some want to achieve something in life, and some want to become successful as a professional, businessman, a celebrity etc. Different people have different dreams such as day dreams, bad dreams, wild dreams, vicarious dreams, romantic dreams, career dreams, destination dreams, materialistic dreams etc.

Some people are positive and are happy to disclose their dreams while some are pessimistic and are afraid or embarrassed to talk about their dreams due to fear, lack of self-confidence, past failures, discouragement, and lack of imagination or are just willing to settle down for the average.


The planning process of personal and career dreams is abruptly interrupted or paused by getting focused on another major milestone in life which is Marriage. In a majority of households getting daughters married is a dream come true project.

When the focus of attention is shifted to marriage and wedding, the dreams of the would-be bride and bridegroom are refrigerated or paused temporarily. After marriage few of them are able to thaw and refocus on their dreams. A majority of them are forced to suspend or abandon their dreams either due to additional marital responsibilities or due to resistance and opposition from the spouse or in-laws.

Whoever forms a partnership are usually aware of their dreams and targets and pursue them until they achieve it. However, in a marital partnership when couples do not have a dream to pursue or are forced to pursue their dreams individually it leads to myriad conflicts and problems.  If one of the spouses has a dream and is discouraged by the partner or in-laws, his/her dreams fades away or are permanently canned.

Those seeking marriage should be aware of their own and their partner’s dreams. This awareness will enable them to nurture and achieve their dreams as a TEAM.

One vital question before embarking on the marital journey would be to ask:

Do You Have A Dream?

(Click the link above for 22 secrets to discovering your dream)

“Don’t be pushed by your problems; be led by your dreams.”


What do you think would cement a relationship in a marriage?

1. Pursuing individual dreams.
2. Pursuing a single dream together.

Source: Google.com

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I’m Fayaz Pasha from Bangalore, the Silicon Valley and Garden City of India. I’m a Certified Life Coach and an NLP Practitioner. I love reading, writing and convey my thoughts through Poetry. I would like to make my humble contribution to the Society through this blog towards detoxification of social evils particularly the dowry system.

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  1. Anita says:

    Very true, Fayazji :)
    Dreams make us…very important to pursue them diligently.

  2. Very nice and inspiring post Fayaz. Yes, we all need to have some dream in our lives and believe in it with all our heart. That’s what adds hope to our life.

    Thanks for sharing such a wonderful post.
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  3. sindhoooo says:

    Very nice post Fayazji! I am an artist. My dream is to live the arts. I was denying marriage proposals from doctors only because I thought being a doctor’s wife would kill my dreams. I respect doctors and if I agree to lead life along with a doctor, I would have to give first priority to his profession and his lifestyle than of mine. If I cannot, I shouldn’t!

    Now, I am married to a popular Yakshagana Artist and Software Engineer, who understands my dreams. We have individual dreams but love binds us :). He can go to any extent to help me in achieving my dreams. He is already popular and successful as an artist, I just need to support him and I do that :).

    So, I think, having individual dreams won’t matter much if we understand, respect and care for dreams of each other.
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    • Fayaz Pasha says:

      Thank you Sindhoo. Most are choosy in terms of vegetables, clothes, appliances and other day-to-day things. However, when it comes to choosing a life partner, the matter is left to destiny and thus there are so many problems post-marriage. Both seem to have made a very conscious and wise choice. May you both prosper and achieve your life’s dreams.

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