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Aisa Kyun Hota Hai?

| February 20, 2014 | 12 Comments


Kyun Hota


Ek aurat apni beti ka sehra sajana chahti hai

Ek aurat apni bahu ko bakra banana chahti hai

Ek aurat apni beti ke khushiyon ki talabgar hai

Ek aurat ko apne bahu ki khushiyon par inkaar hai

Ek aurat apni beti ko laadh aur naazon se paalthi hai

Ek aurat apni bahu ko zulm-o-sitam mein daalthi hai

Ek aurat apni ladki ko paida honese pehle maar deti hai

Ek aurat apni pothi hone par bahu ko dhutkaar deti hai

Agar aurat hai aurat ke zulmon ka shikaar

Aisa Kyun Hota Hai?


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I’m Fayaz Pasha from Bangalore, the Silicon Valley and Garden City of India. I’m a Certified Life Coach and an NLP Practitioner. I love reading, writing and convey my thoughts through Poetry. I would like to make my humble contribution to the Society through this blog towards detoxification of social evils particularly the dowry system.

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  1. Mohammad Shahid Khan says:

    Very touching poetry, I haven’t read you before but now I have a desire to read you more & more I am Karachi Pakistan. God Bless You

  2. Altaf says:

    very well said…..

  3. Very poignant poem…and the solution I believe lies in the change of value set and getting objectivity in the thought process. People also need to be sensitized.

  4. sindhoooo says:

    Are aisa kyon hota hai?? It is a million dollar question! Well expressed…

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  5. Anita says:

    Very valid Qn. Kyun?
    But, sad reality. Women are the enemies!

  6. Athenas Take says:

    This is the sad scenario of the life we women have. Its not a battle against men most of the time its all about competing obe against the other. Women need to live and let live.
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