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Abla Naari

| February 20, 2013 | 13 Comments


Dher saare kapde padey hain
par washing machine chalayega kaun?

Giraani ka samaan tho hai maujood
par kitchen mein choola jalayega kaun?

Kabse bartan padey hain kitchen mein
inko dhokar rakhwayega kaun?

Shopping ki list tho thayyar rakhi hai
par baahar jaakar laayega kaun?

Kitne gharke kaam hain baakhi
in sabko karne aayega kaun?

Socha aur dhoonda bahut
par nahin aaya koi bhi khaboo

Bete ki shaadi kee
aur laayi ek bahoo

Fridge, furniture, rupya, zewar bagair kamaye
ghar baithey ye sub muft mein aaye

Ab gharke saarey kaam karthi hai ye bechaari
Na jaane kyun sub log kehte hain is ko Abla Naari


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I’m Fayaz Pasha from Bangalore, the Silicon Valley and Garden City of India. I’m a Certified Life Coach and an NLP Practitioner. I love reading, writing and convey my thoughts through Poetry. I would like to make my humble contribution to the Society through this blog towards detoxification of social evils particularly the dowry system.

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  1. majaal says:

    Good Poem. All women are compromising always at home..Really all that works are not so easy but they are not get proper respect always. We should appreciate all women.

  2. Panchali says:

    Bahut bekhoobi se apne sametaa hai abala nari ki vyathaa…adbhut kavita hhai, Fayaz.

  3. Rinzu Rajan says:

    Nari bechari nahi hai! Ha usko abla kyun kehte hai mere ko abhi tak nahi samajh aya? Portrayal of images was good! Even though you could do away with the bechari! I guess!

    Will watch this space more often

    Kindly visit


    Thank you

    • Fayaz Pasha says:

      Sahi kaha Rinzu aapne. Ab naari bechari nahin rahi. Ye tho ek kahawat hai. Aur shayad usko abla isliye kaha gaya ki woh bahut fragile hai. Thank you once again for your kind comments and do keep coming.

  4. Amit Agarwal says:

    Ha..ha..ha:):D Wah Fayaz!
    Amit Agarwal recently posted…Chutzpah?My Profile

  5. numerounity says:

    Wah wah…wah wah!!!

    Waise aajkal ke zamaane mein kaha milti hai aisi naari?
    jo kare sasural ki sewa par na ho lalach ki maari

    Adhyunikta ki daud mein, hai sabhi chakachoundh ki maari
    Ab to dekh ke roop kayi mahilao ka, saramsaar ho jaati hai yeh bechari!
    numerounity recently posted…“Murder 3” is rather funny- Film ReviewMy Profile

    • Fayaz Pasha says:

      Bahut khoob! Ekta, jo hame media mein dikta hai wo bahut hi kum naariyan hain jo chakachoundh ki maari hain. Lekin haqeeqat kuch aur hai. Aaj bhi bahut si naariyan jo doctor, engineer ya badey badey positions par hain wo bhi samjhaute ki zindagi guzaar rahe hain. Thanks for your comments. Keep coming.

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