When seeking a job opportunity in a company or a life companion, a majority of them accept a job based on compensation or choose a life-partner based on qualifications, salary or physical features. However, there are many a factors that need to be sought and understood before one decides to choose a company and a companion:
The following are some of the major qualities that employees look for among the best employers:
- Attitude and Ethics
Strong Values and Beliefs
Selecting a marriage partner is a permanent decision, a choice that “affects the afterlife both in this world and in the world to come. A number of individuals select a life companion with less thought than they use in buying fruits and vegetables or purchasing a house or an automobile. They do not know what characteristics are needed for a successful family. They are ignorant of the enduring qualities so essential for a happy home.
In choosing a companion with similar interests we must not include certain physical characteristics that have no affect whatsoever on the marriage. Individual differences of color, height etc. should not be confused with the major interests of life such as:
- Emotionally Balanced
Good Social background
Mature and not just grown up
Open and non-defensive
Sense of Humor
Time and Money Conscious
Decisions made every day such as which toothpaste, soap, and dress to use or which restaurant to visit may not impact the whole life. However, some major decisions as to which company or companion is most suitable shouldn’t be made in haste.
Some of the above factors or signs should be taken into consideration before saying yes to a company and a companion.
Category: MARITAL AWARENESS
About the Author (Author Profile)
I’m Fayaz Pasha from Bangalore, the Silicon Valley and Garden City of India. I’m a Certified Life Coach and an NLP Practitioner. I love reading, writing and convey my thoughts through Poetry. I would like to make my humble contribution to the Society through this blog towards detoxification of social evils particularly the dowry system.