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Arrival and Departure

Arrival and Departure

| April 11, 2014 | 0 Comments

You come in to the world and you cry During the journey of life you make others to cry  Your parents take care of all your needs Your father works and your mother feeds  As you grow, your education gets the priority You obtain a diploma or a degree from a University And when you […]

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Marriage Toolkit

Marriage Toolkit

| March 31, 2014 | 3 Comments

It is said that education begins before birth and at home even before going to school. It takes almost six to eight years after high school to become a doctor. However, after marriage a woman assumes many roles or positions in the family such as a teacher, an accountant, banker, chef, child care manager, counselor, […]

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Do You Have A Dream?

Do You Have A Dream?

| March 20, 2014 | 8 Comments

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.” ~Eleanor Roosevelt The happiest and most successful people are involved in doing something that they enjoy doing or are living a life of purpose and passion. One of the ingredients of happiness is doing what you enjoy most but unfortunately many of […]

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DIL Ko Problem Hai

DIL Ko Problem Hai

| March 17, 2014 | 10 Comments

The would-be Daughter-In-Law (DIL) was examining the circumstances and situations that she would be confronting after her marriage and her thoughts poured out into the following song (from the movie – Dil To Pagal Hai): Dil Ko Problem Hai Dil Ko Problem Hai Choti Choti Baat Pe Uksata Hai Koi Rishton Mein Phir Aag Lagaata […]

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The Boss and The Saas

The Boss and The Saas

| March 11, 2014 | 8 Comments

“Adam and Eve were the happiest, and the luckiest, couple in the world, because neither of them had a mother-in-law.” In both professional and personal life two people are mostly blamed “The boss and the Saas”.   Some of the reasons are discussed below: BOSS: Managers work in every industry throughout the world. A manager […]

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Bride’s Family Is Visiting Bridegroom’s Family

Bride’s Family Is Visiting Bridegroom’s Family

| March 3, 2014 | 6 Comments

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Albert Einstein “Henry Ford hired an efficiency expert to go through his plant. He said, “Find the nonproductive people. Tell me who they are, and I will fire them!” The expert made the rounds with his clipboard in hand and finally returned […]

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Aisa Kyun Hota Hai?

Aisa Kyun Hota Hai?

| February 20, 2014 | 12 Comments

Aisa Kyun Hota Hai? Ek aurat apni beti ka sehra sajana chahti hai Ek aurat apni bahu ko bakra banana chahti hai Ek aurat apni beti ke khushiyon ki talabgar hai Ek aurat ko apne bahu ki khushiyon par inkaar hai Ek aurat apni beti ko laadh aur naazon se paalthi hai Ek aurat apni […]

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A Prisoner by Choice

A Prisoner by Choice

| February 12, 2014 | 12 Comments

The other day while reading about prisoners of Nazi Camp, it occurred to me that apart from destiny there are also many who are prisoners by choice.  Some people are searched and apprehended while some willingly walk into the trap. Below are a few examples: Criminal Prisoners:  People who involve in criminal activities are searched; […]

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Do you want your daughter or son to embark on a miserable marital journey?

Do you want your daughter or son to embark on a miserable marital journey?

| February 6, 2014 | 14 Comments

Humans believe so many lies because we aren’t aware. We ignore the truth or we just don’t see the truth. When we are educated, we accumulate a lot of knowledge, and all that knowledge is just like a wall of fog that doesn’t allow us to perceive the truth, what really is. Miguel Angel Ruiz […]

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Why Do You Want To Marry

Why Do You Want To Marry

| January 28, 2014 | 10 Comments

Man is endowed with mind with intelligence or power of reasoning. The greatest gift of the Creator to man is the ability to think which distinguishes him from all animals on earth. Questions are the most powerful tools we have for making decisions and solving problems, for inventing, changing and improving our lives as well […]

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A Bad Marriage and a Grand Wedding

A Bad Marriage and a Grand Wedding

| January 20, 2014 | 10 Comments

Most often we are concerned about the wedding and all our energies are consumed planning for the event. A lot of preparation and dedication goes into the Wedding plan that generates a checklist (sometimes more than 5-7 pages) containing instructions to be followed for a period of 11 Months before Wedding to 1 Week after […]

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Will You Marry Me

Will You Marry Me

| January 15, 2014 | 20 Comments

I have always been busy studying, spending time with my friends or addicted to my laptop, mobile and other gadgets.  One day there was heavy downpour and due to power-cut it was dark all around. As my mobile was not charged I preferred to use my laptop and logged onto the following website http://www.muslimweddingflight.com. The […]

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All That Glitters Is Not Gold

All That Glitters Is Not Gold

| January 8, 2014 | 12 Comments

Most of you are aware of the 80/20 rule. The Pareto principle (also known as the 80–20 rule) is named after Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto, who observed in 1906 that 80% of the land in Italy was owned by 20% of the population; Pareto developed the principle by observing that 20% of the pea pods […]

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1st Anniversary Celebration

1st Anniversary Celebration

| December 31, 2013 | 8 Comments

The “Muslim Wedding Flight” took off on 31st December 2012 and after a fantastic journey it has completed its first year.  It’s now time to reminisce, rejoice and thank you readers on its 1st Anniversary Celebration. The journey witnessed a few articles, poems and songs on dowry. However, my focus has been towards addressing the […]

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Donation to Dowry

Donation to Dowry

| December 24, 2013 | 4 Comments

Dear Parents, Welcome to Premium International School, the best choice that you can make to prepare your child to face today’s corrupt world. As you are aware, hundreds of thousands of people sacrificed their lives in order to free our country from the slavery of British Rule.  However, after 65 years of independence we are […]

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Premarital Planning and Preparation

Premarital Planning and Preparation

| December 18, 2013 | 14 Comments

Hello and As Salamualaykum, While I was reading an article regarding the various entrance exams and the required efforts, planning and preparation to pass those exams, I wondered if at all any planning or preparation is made for a life long journey called “Marriage”.   The following is an attempt to highlight the need for […]

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Premarital Medical Check Up

Premarital Medical Check Up

| December 10, 2013 | 17 Comments

Have you ever been diagnosed with, or had to take treatment for, Tuberculosis (TB)? Have you ever been admitted to hospital and/or received medical treatment for an extended period for any reason (including for a major operation or treatment of a psychiatric illness)? Do you suffer, or have you ever suffered, from mental health problems? […]

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Life

Life

| November 30, 2013 | 10 Comments

For everything we do in life there need not be a reason while most are planned, some just happen and some by season That which happens in life is real joy or pain and what is assumed may either be a loss or gain We enjoy the journey with family and comrades while most are […]

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Marital Qualifications

Marital Qualifications

| November 19, 2013 | 10 Comments

A Commander in his address to the battalion says; we have bought the best uniforms available in the market and hope that you will be victorious in the battlefield . As far as the training in weaponry is concerned, you will learn a lot as the battle progresses and on ground training will be provided as […]

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The Law and You

The Law and You

| November 5, 2013 | 12 Comments

There are Cyber Laws Family Laws Banking Laws Criminal Laws Corporate Laws Mercantile Laws International Laws Constitutional Laws Administrative Laws Environmental Laws But there are TWO LAWS That shake the Planet MOTHER IN-LAW DAUGHTER IN-LAW

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The Wedding Greed

The Wedding Greed

| October 23, 2013 | 12 Comments

There is enough in the world for everyone’s need, but not enough for everyone’s greed. Frank Buchman An emperor was coming out of his palace for his morning walk when he met a beggar. He asked the beggar, “What do you want?” the beggar laughed and said, “You are asking me as though you can […]

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Wedding Reimbursement

Wedding Reimbursement

| October 9, 2013 | 16 Comments

Hello and As Salamualaykum! Dowry death is considered one of the many categories of violence against women, alongside rape, bride burning, eve teasing, and acid throwing. It is widespread in India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Nepal and Sri Lanka and some regions of Africa.  Pakistan has the highest reported rates of dowry-related deaths per 100,000 women in […]

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Functions of a Nose

Functions of a Nose

| September 30, 2013 | 0 Comments

The visible part of the human nose is the protruding part of the face that bears the nostrils. The shape of the nose is determined by the ethmoid bone and the nasal septum, which consists mostly of cartilage and which separates the nostrils. On average the nose of a male is larger than that of […]

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Problems

Problems

| September 19, 2013 | 8 Comments

PROBLEMS Everybody has it Everybody find it Everybody look at it Everybody feel about it Everybody think about it Everybody believe they exist Some lament about it Some are part of it Some live with it Some discuss it Some create it Some sort it Some add BUT Few Fix It It is said that […]

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I’m So Sorry

I’m So Sorry

| September 14, 2013 | 12 Comments

I still remember it was such a beautiful day. The sun was bright and the presence of kith and kin, friends and neighbors made the day more festive. I was congratulated, complemented and also received a lot of compliments. There was so much joy and happiness around particularly in my family. The whole day was […]

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Most Beautiful Bride Ever

Most Beautiful Bride Ever

| September 3, 2013 | 16 Comments

You want my face to glitter and shine You want my body to be slim and that’s fine You want me to be talented and educated You want me from a noble family associated You want me to be modern and pious You want me to be prolific and zealous I just want you to […]

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Bio-data For Marriage Proposals

Bio-data For Marriage Proposals

| August 23, 2013 | 13 Comments

I have always wondered over the precise details that are mentioned in the bio-data for marriage proposal. However when it comes to applying for a job, the C.Vs run into pages providing elaborate details so that no stone is left upturned.  In one of the recent newspaper articles it was suggested that before hiring housemaids, […]

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Jai Jawan Jai Kisan

Jai Jawan Jai Kisan

| August 14, 2013 | 14 Comments

  They keep the country safe by protecting the border They cultivate the lands and provide us the fodder Hence, we enjoy our freedom and have sufficient food   They live in barracks, forests or trenches They live in huts, mud houses or open fields We live in good houses, flats, bungalows or palaces   They […]

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Dil Ka Kya Kusoor?

Dil Ka Kya Kusoor?

| August 12, 2013 | 6 Comments

I have penned a few lines about the plight of heart as in a majority of cases the heart is blamed or held responsible while the mind escapes. Aajkal apun ki waat lagreli hai baap Badnaam hota hoon main par kusoor dimag ka hai janaab Koi mujhe deta hai, Tho koi mujhe chura leta hai Kisike […]

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Education, Education and Education

Education, Education and Education

| July 22, 2013 | 18 Comments

The Bollywood film industry is abuzz with the dialogues “A film is successful for three reasons; Entertainment, Entertainment and Entertainment”. Similarly, a Society is successful for three reasons “Education, Education and Education”. However, providing education has become a complicated problem for the parents. Every night when the mother goes to bed her only thought is […]

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